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Are You Taking Things Too Personally?

Are You Taking Things Too Personally?

I could tell when I entered the waiting room of my office that Samantha was having a bad day. She appeared depressed–she sat slumped in the chair and she was visibly upset. Her mascara was running and she looked like she had been crying. Unlike times when she was more upbeat, she was not distracting herself with her phone […]

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Do You Turn to Food When You’re In a Transition?

Do You Turn to Food When You’re In a Transition?

The Random House College Dictionary defines a transition as “a change from one position, state, stage, subject or concept to another.” Many emotional eaters have difficulty with transitions and turn to food as a way to comfort and soothe themselves during the transition process. Here are a few examples of what I call “transition eating”: […]

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Are Unmet Needs Sending You to the Refrigerator?

Are Unmet Needs Sending You to the Refrigerator?

Does it feel like you’re living your life, day-to-day, with many of your needs unmet? Do you think this may have something to do with your overeating or imbalanced eating? If so, you’re not alone. Many overeaters, frustrated by years of unmet needs, find themselves regularly turning to food for emotional comfort, pleasure, soothing, escape, […]

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All you need is love

In the previous blog article, I asked if you felt worthy of self-love. Hopefully you’re putting into practice some of the exercises I suggested and you’re beginning to connect to yourself in a more loving way. Today is Valentine’s Day and I’d like you to take self-love one step further. I invite you to be your own valentine.  […]

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Resolve to be kind to and patient with yourself this New Year

Did you make any New Year’s resolutions this year about losing weight, getting in shape or stopping your emotional eating?  If your like most Americans, you made one or more resolutions along those lines.  And now, almost two weeks into the new year, you may be wondering where all those good intentions have gone. I’ve […]

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Loneliness and emotional eating–Part II

Chronic loneliness is a symptom and signal that you are disconnected from one or more of the three main sources of soul nourishment and sustenance: Self, Others and Spirituality.  Some level of a positive connection to all three sources is essential for good emotional and physical health.  In Part I of this article, I addressed Self-connection and […]

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